“I realize I was encountering what happened when two things converge: when today’s total freedom of access to hardcore porn online meets our society’s equally total reluctance to talk open and honestly about sex.
“I began realizing through dating younger men that I was encountering an issue that would quite honestly never have crossed my mind if I had not encountered it so very intimately in person,” Cindy Gallop, creator of MakeLoveNotPorn (NSFW), a generated video-sharing site that shows real couples having sex, tells Bustle. But if you want porn that's not only good but is also inclusive - not to mention realistic - things become a little bit more challenging.īecause a lot of mainstream porn is nothing like real life. Yes, the internet is like 99.9 percent porn - I mean, it feels like you can't click on anything without a random penis popping up on your screen. Finding the best porn site can be harder than it seems.
